Difference in TFT and EFT

What’s the difference between TFT and EFT? – Another question from a student. Primarily 3 differences. 1) The order of points to tap matters (TFT) – Doesn’t matter (EFT). 2) Use muscle testing to “diagnose” which point to tap in what order (TFT) – Just tap all the points (EFT). […] Read more »

My trip to India

For the month of May 2013 I stayed in Anand, Gujarat, India. During that time I deviated from my EFT related posts and became a travel writer. I have since moved all those blogs to a separate page – after all this is supposed to be n EFT blog. But, […] Read more »

The 1 – 2 – 3 of EFT Process

There is a clear process to follow when using EFT, no matter the client or the situation. What varies is the application and modification of that process with each client. Particularly new practitioners are tempted to just start tapping with everyone.  However, if you’ve watched many of Gary’s videos of […] Read more »

And I was so proud of myself

When I was a child, my Sunday school teacher would admonish us that “pride goeth before a fall.”  So for years I felt guilty whenever I felt really good about what I had done. As an adult I reinterpreted that biblical quote to mean that I needed to be careful about being […] Read more »

Redo, redid, redone

Ever have an serious desire, a major focus – OK, an obsession, to get something done? For three months my focus/obsession was to organize and deep clean my house, to reclaim it so to speak. I  not only removed all the dust and dirt in from every nook and cranny, […] Read more »

Question: Tapping for different issues.

Here is a recent question from an EFTer that I believe is relevant to many of you, “How close together can you tap for different issues.” Ordinarily you would complete one event at the time that deals with your issue. You tap on all aspects until that event has a […] Read more »

Accept Yourself – in THIS Moment

Many folks balk at the default acceptance part of the EFT Setup, “I deeply and completely accept myself.” The Setup doesn’t mean that you now will accept everything about yourself forever after. THAT would be tough for everyone. There are lots of variations on acceptance to sneak in and modify […] Read more »

Blocks to success

All changes are scarey and while we may say we do want to change at least part of us doesn’t really want to change. Changes have consequences – some good sometimes not so good. That devil (our problem situation) we know is at least familiar – we’ve worked out ways […] Read more »

On Insecurity

I have not written a new blog post now for about 6 months. Goes against everything I’ve read about blogging. Bad girl!! Yes, I’ve been busy. Yes, I’ve traveled a lot. Yes, I have lots of excuses. But, that’s no excuse. Nobody who knows me well would consider me as […] Read more »

It’s All about Respect

It is difficult to have any kind of meaningful relationship without respect. That holds true whether the relationship is with your spouse, your friends, your family, your coworkers, your boss, and yes, even children. I was interviewed by Jondi Whitis and Sue Tarlton of EFT Radio on line about using R-E-S-P-E-C-T […] Read more »