It is difficult to have any kind of meaningful relationship without respect. That holds true whether the relationship is with your spouse, your friends, your family, your coworkers, your boss, and yes, even children. I was interviewed by Jondi Whitis and Sue Tarlton of EFT Radio on line about using R-E-S-P-E-C-T when working with children. You
Archive for November 2011
Respecting Children
Movie Technique vs. Tell the Story
While Gary often used these terms interchangably there is a difference between the Movie Technique and Tell the Story. The main difference? Privacy. Tell the story is out loud whereas running the movie is done silently in their head. In Tell the Story the person does just that, tells a story of what happened out
Don’t Forget the PPP
The Personal Peace Procedure can be very useful both when using EFT on your own and when you work with a client. Most people describe their troubles with one or more fairly general presenting complaints such as: I’ll never find anyone, I am always passed over, I am miserable, I’m really conflicted about this decision,
Introducing EFT
Explaining EFT to clients is the first step to using it. Because finding and developing a “specific” event, emotion or physical feeling is so important when using EFT I stress that aspect of EFT from the very beginning. Here’s the essence of what I say: EFT stands for Emotional Freedom Techniques. That’s a great name
Trainers: How well do your students remember?
You worked really hard during your EFT workshop to get all of the EFT concepts across clearly and give your students a meaningful experience. So now your students know EFT, right? Um… well maybe not so much. Studies show that after a workshop or class, students may remember only 20 to 40% of the major
So you learned EFT from a website…
If you Google “Emotional Freedom Techniques,” you get something like a million results. Maybe you heard of EFT and learned how to use it on the web. There are some pretty good free resources. Some of the videos of the tapping points are especially nice. From a mix of websites, maybe you’ve learned some of
EFT Limericks
I love limericks and enjoy writing them. It’s another favorite diversion. Here’s one on EFT. ME and EFT There is a lady named Ann Doing the best that she can She came upon EFT Said, “Wow! That’s for me.” Now she’s EFT’s greatest fan. Keep in mind I didn’t say they were good limericks :-)
Pressure Washing
My favorite “yard tool” is my pressure washer. Using my pressure washer is great self care. I’m outside, away from the computer. It gives me a quick sense of accomplishment. I start it up and the water comes out and I watch whatever I focus on change from dirty to clean. Instant change! Instant gratification!










